One of the commonly used causes for divorce is “irreconcilable differences.”  As expected, when people come to counseling for their relationship troubles, most are distressed about the differences between them.  They would typically highlight the issues and problems that they disagree on: “She is a slob…I like to my house to be neat and orderly”  “He is a ladder climber (only focused on achieving success)… To me, there are more important things in life.”  “He does not have any ambitions […]